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 DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?

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PostSubject: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Mon Nov 23, 2009 9:28 am

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, " How do I know if I married the right person ?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, " It Depends. Is that your husband?"

In all seriousness, she answered " How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's Weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.


EVERY
relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with Your
spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked Their
idiosyncrasies.


Falling
in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a Completely
natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO
YOU.


People
in love sometimes say, " I was swept of my feet." Think about the
Imagery of that _expression. It implies that you were just standing
There; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.


Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But
after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the
Natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
Become a bother ( if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (
when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being
cute, drive you nuts.


The
symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you Think
about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the
initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.


At
this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, " Did I marry
The right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria
of The love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else.


This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their Unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.


Extramarital
fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is The most
obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a
friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.


but the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You Could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because ( listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING
love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just
happen to you. You can't "find " LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the _expression " the labor of love."


Because
it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it Takes
WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.


Make
no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific Things
you can do ( with or without your spouse ) to succeed with your
marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe ( such as gravity),

There
are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise
Program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your
Relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. You can " make" love.


Love in marriage is indeed a " decision"... Not just a feeling
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Thu Dec 03, 2009 9:50 pm

ampon..patik x phm la..trnfer jawi blh?
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Fri Dec 04, 2009 9:18 am

alahai aza p beli kamus besta translatekan ea...huhu
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Sun Dec 06, 2009 1:01 pm

APO KO NI AZA TAK PAHAM LAK...HEI... DEN PON SAMO GAK... WALKAKAKAKAKAKAKAA....BAHASO TAMIL DEN PAHAM LA..
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Mon Dec 07, 2009 4:41 pm

hampeh tol korang nie huhu....
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Tue Dec 08, 2009 9:09 am

pda aza n qaidah nieh michi trnslate kan
Dalam salah satu seminar kami, seorang wanita bertanya soalan yang umum. Dia berkata, "Bagaimanakah saya tahu jika saya berkahwin dengan orang yang tepat?"

Saya melihat ada seorang lelaki bertubuh besar duduk di sebelahnya jadi saya menjawab, "ia bergantung. Adakah itu suami anda?"

Dalam semua keseriusan, dia menjawab "Bagaimana kau tahu?"

Mari saya menjawab soalan ini kerana kemungkinan besar bahawa itu Penimbangan di fikiran anda.

Inilah jawapannya.

SETIAP
hubungan mempunyai kitaran. Pada awalnya, anda jatuh cinta dengan anda
pasangan. Anda diantisipasi panggilan mereka, ingin sentuhan mereka, dan menyukai mereka
tersendiri.

JATUH
cinta dengan pasangan anda itu tidak sulit. Bahkan, itu Sepenuhnya
alami dan spontan. Anda tidak harus buat apa-apa.
Itu sebabnya disebut "jatuh" cinta ... Kerana itu terjadi KEPADA
ANDA.

Orang-orang
cinta kadang-kadang berkata, "Aku sedang menyapu kaki saya." Fikirkan
Gambaran _expression itu. Ini membayangkan bahawa anda hanya berdiri
Sana; melakukan apa-apa, dan kemudian sesuatu datang dan terjadi KEPADA ANDA.

Jatuh cinta itu mudah. Sesuatu yang pasif dan spontan.

Tetapi
setelah beberapa tahun perkawinan, gempita cinta itu memudar. Itu
SETIAP kitaran semulajadi hubungan. Perlahan tapi pasti, panggilan telefon
Menjadi hal yang melepaskan (jika mereka datang sama sekali), sentuhan tidak selalu datang (
ketika itu berlaku), dan keanehan pasangan anda, alih-alih
cute, membuatkan anda gila.

Itu
gejala pada tahapan ini bervariasi pada setiap hubungan, namun jika anda Berpikir
tentang rumah tangga anda, anda akan melihat perbezaan dramatik antara
tahap awal ketika anda jatuh cinta dan yang lebih kusam atau bahkan marah
tahap berikutnya.

Dititik ini, anda dan / atau pasangan anda mungkin akan mula bertanya, "Adakah saya berkahwin
Orang yang tepat? "Dan ketika anda maupun pasangan anda mencoba merefleksikan euforia
cinta yang pernah terjadi, anda mungkin mula keinginan yang pengalaman dengan
orang lain.

Ini ketika perkahwinan termusnah. Orang-orang menyalahkan pasangannya atas ketidakbahagiaan mereka dan melihat di luar perkahwinan mereka untuk pemenuhan.

Kawin
pemenuhan datang dalam segala bentuk dan saiz. Perselingkuhan adalah yang paling
jelas. Tetapi kadang-kadang orang-orang berpaling untuk bekerja, hobi,
persahabatan, berlebihan TV, atau bahan kasar.

tapi jawapan dilema ini TIDAK terletak di luar perkahwinan anda. Itu terletak di dalamnya.

Saya tidak mengatakan bahawa anda tidak boleh jatuh cinta dengan orang lain. Anda Bisa.

Dan SEMENTARA anda akan merasa lebih baik. Namun, anda akan dalam situasi yang sama beberapa tahun kemudian. Karena (pahamilah dengan seksama untuk ini):

KUNCI UNTUK BERJAYA DALAM PERKAHWINAN TIDAK MENEMUKAN ORANG YANG TEPAT; Ianya BELAJAR MENCINTAI ORANG YANG ANDA TEMUI.

Mengekalkan
cinta bukan pasif ataupun pengalaman yang spontan. Ini akan PERNAH sahaja
terjadi pada anda. Anda tidak boleh "menemukan" cinta Abadi. Anda mesti "membuat" itu hari demi hari. Itu sebabnya kita mempunyai _expression "tenaga kerja cinta."

Kerana
itu memerlukan waktu, usaha, dan tenaga. Dan yang paling penting, Membawa
KEBAHAGIAN. Anda harus tahu APA YANG HARUS DILAKUKAN untuk membuat perkahwinan anda menjadi.

Membuat
tidak ada kesalahan tentang hal itu. Cinta adalah BUKAN sebuah misteri. Ada Hal-hal khusus
Anda boleh melakukan (dengan ataupun tanpa pasangan anda) untuk sukses dengan
perkahwinan.
Seperti halnya ada hukum-hukum fizik alam semesta (seperti graviti),

Ada
juga hukum untuk hubungan. Sama seperti diet yang tepat dan sukan
Membuat tubuh kita lebih kuat, beberapa kebiasaan dalam
Hubungan AKAN membuat pernikahan anda lebih kuat. Ini adalah penyebab langsung dan
kesan. Jika anda mengetahui dan melaksanakan undang-undang, hasilnya boleh dijangka. .. Anda boleh "membuat" cinta.

Cinta dalam perkahwinan memang suatu "keputusan" ... bukan hanya perasaan
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PostSubject: Re: DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON ?   Tue Dec 08, 2009 8:33 pm

HAAHAHAHAHAHA BARU DEN PAHAM....JELAS SIKIT TULISAN EH...YG TULISAN ORG PUTIH TU KABUR
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